The Single Woman-Married Man Syndrome

the long version

"Many single woman-married man relationships are characterized by such recognizable, even stereotypic interactions and run such a predictable course as to constitute a genuine syndrome. Based on an unconscious agreement to gratify each other's internal longings, the complementary dynamics in these relationships result in regression, feelings of powerlessness, and loss of the autonomous self, making it exceedingly difficult for either partner to leave. Documenting the existence of this syndrome with case histories from inside and outside clinical practice, Dr. Richard Tuch gives serious consideration to the complex dynamics involved and offers a framework to help patients struggling with their involvement in such affairs. A broader discussion of relations between men and women evolves and addresses such issues as men's dread of women, women's unique inclinations to employ masochistic adaptations in their relations with men; married couples' varied style of dealing with their differences; the relationship of power and control to the processes of domination, submission, and the act of surrendering; and the development of the capacity to fall and remain in love."--BOOK JACKET.