How to date men

the long version

The hardest part about dating is understanding the mysterious inner workings of a man's brain. How can women know what men are really looking for if men don't tell them?They can ask Janis.With over fourteen years of experience as a professional matchmaker, Janis Spindel has a unique insider's perspective on contemporary dating culture. All her clients are men, and they tell her exactly what they want in a relationship. Janis offers women a step-by-step plan for winning a man's heart, such as:• It's okay to ask a guy for his number, as long as you do it with confidence• Don't wear your work clothes on a date, ever! Freshen up before meeting a guy• Pay him a compliment—he's human. He'll love it.Entertaining and empowering, What Men Really Want is the next best thing to a private appointment with the nation's premier matchmaker."Janis Spindel falls somewhere between Dolly Levi, the matchmaker immortalized in Hello Dolly!, and Bruce Wassterstein, the deal-making investment banker."—The Wall Street Journal"The reigning queen of the matchmaking world"—New York Times Magazine